Monthly Archives: July 2016

The Ugly Truth

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Living in a world where nothing means what it used to mean, everything is a lie and people can’t be trusted if they don’t even try to love others. Love is a word that has become so distant in our everyday lives, we don’t love each other, we don’t love ourselves so, how can we love anything else. We blame things on others when it is almost always our fault. We can’t even be truthful to ourselves to a point where our whole identity is a lie and we just change to fit in to something, where our words are weapons our mouth tells stories and we do things that shame ourselves and our loved ones

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Let It Go 2

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It takes a real strength and courage to forgive people, to start all over again in life, to let things go, things that hurt you, things that wounded and made you bleed terribly. Things that made you suffer; promotions you lost, houses and properties you lost, men who used you, women who betrayed you. It takes a lot to always move on in spite of the hurt you get in life but you must always move on.

Someday, you will forget the hurt the reason you cried and who caused you  pain and you will finally realize that being free is not a revenge but letting things unfold in their own way and own time. Smile, laugh, forgive , believe and learn to love again

 

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Quote of the week

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“The real warriors in this world are the ones that see the details of another’s soul. They see the transparency behind walls people put up. They stand on the battlefield of life and expose their heart’s transparency, so other’s can finish the day with hope. They are the sensitive souls that understand that before they could be a light they first had to feel the burn. “Shannon Alder

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Job Depression

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When you first start working at a place you really wanted to, you do your best, go above and beyond and take pride in your work. But then things get monotonous, leadership fails you, and you find that your co-workers have nothing to do but talk bad about each other.

You then think of your first day and what lead to this very moment. Then you stop giving your all, stop going above and beyond and you stop taking pride in your work. You imagine scenarios in your head about the moment when you tell your boss you’re resigning with a big smile on your face; but soon this smile will fade away as you realize you don’t have an alternative job as it is hard to find a new job in a bad economy. The picture of your family at your desk reminds you of obligations, mouths to feed, and taxes to pay, so you decide to swallow your pride and continue doing this shitty job by putting a fake smile every morning and pretending you will be okay.

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Trust

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I don’t trust most people. No matter how long we may have known each other. We could have known each other all my life, but my trust may not be with you at all. Never confuse time with loyalty; just because you have been around, don’t mean you have BEEN there. I always sit back and observe every person in my life, whether we talk everyday or not. I know who motivates me and keep it 100%. I also know who I can’t trust and who I need to keep distance with, whether I say anything or let you be fake.

Please make sure that trust is the last thing you handout. It’s the most important, and the most fragile and the easiest thing to break. Don’t trust someone because you love them or because they are blood relatives; trust them because they earn it. Trust isn’t complementary, it is not free toy in a bag you don’t give it away because it seems right.

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