Sometimes people allow their past hurts to keep them down, the he said, she said, he did, she did to stop you from progressing. But no one really stops you from being great, from having more, from being more other than yourself. Okay so that job didn’t work out, that friendship didn’t last, that marriage failed, but now what? What are you going to do in order to keep progressing in life? Never allow your past failures to be who you are now. They were obstacles that you overcame. As long as you allow your past to dictate your current and future situation you will always be stuck. Get out there and prove everyone wrong, get out there and make it happen, get out there and get your own. Don’t stay bitter and angry…don’t allow your past to control your happiness. Because while you are focused on the people who hurt you, guess what. ..they are LOVING life.
Voyager of freedom 
Great message dear and it’s so true! We stop and we are affected while others continue to live and be happy…We should let go all grudges and focus on positive and on good…
Very well expressed ❤
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Thank you Agou ❤ I wish more people realized this so can end up being happier. One should let go of grudges, one owes to himself foremost in order to gain peace of mind
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Have you met someone from my friends??? Only one person calls me Agou actually 🙂 friend from high school!
my pleasure Nado hahah I believe your pet name should be so 😀
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Oh really?!! When I asked you about your nicknames (because Huguette is a rare name) you told me about it, and I love it the most along with Hug, so I decided to call you Agou =)
Oh yes Nado is a pet name for Nadine, perfect one=) There’s also Nadouch, Nadoun, Nadino, Nadouna, Nano (though the latter sounds like a name for a potty )
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Oh I forgot I also mention it, only one friend calls me so, now they are 2 😊
Nadouch or Nado for me I guess 😁
Nano sim 😂 nope not this one
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Honored my friend ❤ also apparently there is a car called Nano https://www.google.com/search?q=nano+car&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwj57MWe-OnjAhWFDewKHYmQC1UQ_AUIESgB&biw=1366&bih=657#imgrc=Gf8PGDwCnWW2gM:, add it to the list of car you need to buy me =)
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Hahhaha haydi car walla porte-clés 😁 tekrami walaw 😊😊
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Excellent words of wisdom, Nadine. We are our own self inflicted obstacles.
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Thank you Rob ❤ We should stop blaming others for our happiness, it is us and our mindset that stop us sometimes from being happy
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Wonderful. Life must go on. That’s what I always remember every time I experience something bad or something that can significantly change my life and my love ones. We only have one life to live so we need to make the most of it. You deserve wonderful experiences and memories. 🙂 🙂
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Love your motto in life. Life is short, there is nothing permanent in this life including ourselves and the time keeps passing at each second; and life therefore goes on whether with us or without us. It all depends on our choices and how we adapt to changes in our life
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I really clapped my hands on that last words. Yes, when people keep on focusing at people who harmed them they enjoy life. And by staying bitter they are letting these people who harmed them win. They may not know they won but they succeeded and only by accepting things as they are do the best out of the situation can we truly live. I learned this the hard way.
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I’m glad you love it and I’m glad you learned your lesson even if it is in hard way. Letting go of grudges and moving on is surely liberating and can help one achieve happiness, and you will be able to see the beauty in everything
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