Relationships have been replaced with “talking”. Which consist of pointlessly texting and a random phone call here and there. People text or “talk” merely to fill a void when they get bored. Commitment is a rare thing to find. Date nights really don’t exist much anymore. Chivalry is pretty much a thing of the past. There’s no more opening the car’s door for her or going to the front door to pick her up for a date. Today’s society cheating has been accepted way more than it should be and people classify it as a mistake. Since it is accepted more people continue to go back to the same person that has cheated on them repeatedly. (Albert Einstein defined insanity as doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results) Feelings don’t really matter anymore and it’s became a hurt someone before you get hurt kind of world. Cheating or crossing the line has become way too easy with social media. People don’t put in the effort that it takes to keep a relationship healthy or work. When things get tough people give up. Relationships have lost its value over the years and they aren’t how they are supposed to be anymore. To the girls that say there aren’t any good guys left in the world, maybe you should reevaluate the kind of guys you pursue. To the guys that can’t find a good girl, I can guarantee that you aren’t looking in the right places.
Beautifully put it. It is the sad reality of today because good people think they are undeserving or love. While, the bad, narcissistic ones think the world is under their feet.
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That’s the problem of our world. the good people think they are undeserving for love and afraid to make the first move. While the bad and narcissistic people are bold and don’t care if they break other people heart
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I Am still an old romantic. Open doors For my lady and close them behind. Make sure that she’s on the inside to protect from the puddles etc. Relationships do take a lot of effort and social media destroys a lot of relationships-because people can’t be bothered
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I’m glad guys like you exist =) your lady is so lucky to have you. Those small gestures are so sweet and romantic. Yes relationships do take time and people are not bothered nowadays, they just upload their pics on the social media and put under it a googled quote about love
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Thank you nadine. That’s a lovely thing to say xxx
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you are so right, you even were soft in comparison to what’s really happening! Loyalty and honesty are outdated and also noble gestures! But I say that despite all this, each person can still be what they love and want to be, they can start from themselves, be loyal, be romantic, be noble and loving even if the entire world did the opposite, and as you said there are lot of good guys and girls out there but most people search in the wrong places actually and then they complain that nobody is good enough
Great post 🙂 ❤
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Unfortunately you are so right. Loyalty and honesty are becoming a joke nowadays. People don’t look to love and marriage as a lifetime commitment nowadays, and they don’t work hard to maintain them. So true what you said, but are these people willing to change? Many are not willing and they will continue to nag, unaware the change will begin with themselves first.
Btw sorry for the late reply
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Don’t worry Nadine and hope you are enjoying the summer that you hate hahaa stay hydrated and thank you for your reply, we are doomed!
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Oh I’m staying hydrated in fact I think I am one of the reason of water shortage in this country. Agou I hope you are enjoying blazing summer you absolutely love! Nshawayna
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Barbecue 🍖 hahahah ennu 3adi mesh hal2ad
I just like to see the sun and I hate bahdalet el shiti mesh aktar so trikilna may 😂
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If you like the sun that much why don’t you fly a rocket to visit it and take selfie with it, or ta3i khediya min 3enna l3ama ka2ana nezlet w a3det bil matbakh 3enna
l problem mesh bil winter bas bi ter2atna
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I’m meanie??? Nkeyi fiki I will go and have a selfie with the sun😂😎😎 but guess what I won’t take it, I will find another similar star and bring it here to your living room 😂😂😂
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Hmm I think I will move to another galaxy away from you and your stupid sun, problem solved 😀
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My stupid sun 😂😂 ana kel 7ilti hal tyeb yelli 3layyii 😂 she7arrrr
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So you say, it might be all a cover up. who knows how rich you are?
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Yes I’m a millionaire 😎😎😎😎🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫
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I know it!! Better upgrade my Christmas wish list 😀
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💰💶💶💴💴💵💵💵💵💵💵😁😁
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Oh yes screaming “Show me the money” like that guy in Jerry Maguire movie
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I wish I can click more than like on this post. It points out so much many true and tragic stuff. Things that use to be so normal is now nothing but something rare and hardly exist.
That photo at the end speaks volume.
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Thank you for your kind words =) Unfortunately today relationships are based on benefit, social climbing, and greed, true and genuine love is hard to find nowadays.
The photo represent the modern cheating nowadays
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So true! Even if a person don’t have physical connection, if they have a romantic relationship with someone online it’s still cheating.
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Yes, but to some people if there is no “Sex” they don’t consider it cheating but only harmless flirtation!!!
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👍 Emotional cheating just as bad.
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I noticed that technology makes cheating very convenient nowadays. Sad story.
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That’s sooooooooooo true, it makes it easier to meet new people, I know many married couple whose marriage were destroyed because of social media and chat apps,
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Oh well that should not be the case. Those apps are not really bad, but if you let temptation get into you, that’s dangerous.
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Exactly, I guess some people get bored with the married routine life, and start using these apps for “harmless flirtation”, but they don’t know this “harmless flirtation” is considered cheating and sometimes it will develop to something more serious
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Oh yeah definitely it will go to that serious and painful route of betrayal or cheating. It’s sad but it really happens. It’s not right to justify cheating, but sometimes we have to, just to keep the marriage. 😦
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