Sometimes people allow their past hurts to keep them down, the he said, she said, he did, she did to stop you from progressing. But no one really stops you from being great, from having more, from being more other than yourself. Okay so that job didn’t work out, that friendship didn’t last, that marriage failed, but now what? What are you going to do in order to keep progressing in life? Never allow your past failures to be who you are now. They were obstacles that you overcame. As long as you allow your past to dictate your current and future situation you will always be stuck. Get out there and prove everyone wrong, get out there and make it happen, get out there and get your own. Don’t stay bitter and angry…don’t allow your past to control your happiness. Because while you are focused on the people who hurt you, guess what. ..they are LOVING life.
When trying to deal with a past bad relationship. Sometimes you have to forget a person’s existence and let them become a faded picture.
It’s not to be mean or spiteful. It is for your own peace of mind. You cannot make someone’s love for you be real or them to be what you expect them to be.
You have to allow them the time to realize that the mistake they made isn’t something that they can just fix and they must live with their regret. Whether they ever admit it to other or not. It will be something they cannot lie to themselves about and will live with.
Sometimes the puzzle pieces don’t fit no matter how much you try to force them to.
It’s when you step back and look at the puzzle and realize that the piece you are trying to make fit. May be owned by someone else and you are holding on to something keeping you from your missing piece.
It takes a real strength and courage to forgive people, to start all over again in life, to let things go, things that hurt you, things that wounded and made you bleed terribly. Things that made you suffer; promotions you lost, houses and properties you lost, men who used you, women who betrayed you. It takes a lot to always move on in spite of the hurt you get in life but you must always move on.
Someday, you will forget the hurt the reason you cried and who caused you pain and you will finally realize that being free is not a revenge but letting things unfold in their own way and own time. Smile, laugh, forgive , believe and learn to love again